The Holbrook Family: September 2010

Wednesday, September 22, 2010

The List

I have a whole list of things I want and need to do, I thought that if I wrote them down maybe I could start accomplishing some of them, maybe....

Laundry
Get the play room picked up, again.
weed
plant bushes
buy flower bulbs and plant them
Get out Halloween decorations
Finish organizing the garage
Spray off the back deck
Clean out the sand box of all the broken toys
Mail my thank you cards that I wrote 2 months ago...grrrr.
Get Leila's birth announcements printed and mailed
Upload pictures to Kodak gallery
Order pictures from Kodak gallery
Put together picture albums
Convert blog to book
Make a "First Year" book for Charlie
Put our home videos on a dvd
Make some more bows
Make a stroller blanket
Learn how to sew better
Learn how to decorate cakes better
Get back in shape
Organize all my recipes
Print off my new recipes
Figure out how I'm going to plan for dinners better
Clean out and organize my storage room
Clean the basement
Label lots of stuff with a label maker
Finish decorating just about every room in my house (that's a list in and of itself)
Prepare better FHE lessons
Attend the temple more often
Get on regular scripture study ritual
Pray with my husband regularly

Umm....this list could go on and on, does anyone else have a list like this? I'm sure you all do and you're all much better at getting stuff crossed off, I however am not. It's like you have one productive day and you're wiped out for the week because the next days you're catching up on all the every day stuff you didn't do because you were trying to get your "list" of stuff done. Plus you're just worn out from being a mom there's not much left to do anything else, no time, not enough money. So my list sticks to all the basic things and all those wants remain wants, but I want to be able to do them. Help.

Monday, September 20, 2010

2 Months

This post is a little past due but the pictures were taken at 2 months. She is already getting so big! My newborn is gone and it makes me so sad. But I'm loving the chubbiness she is getting, she looks like she's getting some rolls! Charlie and Kenya never had much chubbiness, she must get it from me. :)

At 2 months Leila is
Sleeping a good 8 hours at night
Smiling all the time and recognizing voices
Loves her baths
Has moved from our closet to her room
Has found her fist and loves to suck on it.

Weight-11 lbs 9 oz (at 11 weeks)

The last time I took her in (around 4 weeks) I told my doctor that she was being pretty fussy when she'd try to go to sleep, and would wake up often with a painful cry. He suggested I go off dairy or limit it and see if that helps along with taking probiotics and angling her mattress. So I did and it really made a big difference. Ever since she has been a really good baby. I can eat a little dairy and she's fine and even if I do have ice cream she's still not terribly bad but I do notice she's more fussy the next day.

It's so fun when they start giving you back a little something with those smiles, I could just kiss those cheeks all day. :)

Tuesday, September 14, 2010

Road Trippin'

We took a little road trip, okay a big long road trip up to Washington to see my Oma and Opa and our good friends the Hess's over Labor Day. It's usually about a 12 hour drive but we got stuck in traffic towards the end and it added an extra two hours to our drive. Our kids were great in the car though thanks to the DVD player and Leila was a little angel, eating and sleeping and smiling, oooh I just want to squeeze those cheeks!

The first night was filled with some black berry picking along with some black berry stains all over Charlie's clothes from the black berry eating. My grandparents have tons of wild black berry bushes right outside their back door. I have many memories of picking these as a kid.

We took a trip in to Seattle the next morning. Oma and Opa live in Bremerton, one ferry ride away from Seattle, the best way to get there by far!

The kids were throwing goldfish in the air and watching the seagulls catch them as we were on the ferry.

Then we went to Ivar's, the only place my kids make sure NOT to eat all their fries so they can feed them to the seagulls.

We took the monorail into the city center to see the Space Needle. In all the times I've been to Seattle I've never gone up the Space Needle so we decided to bite the bullet and pay the $18 and see the view from the top.

Leila slept at the bottom and waited for us with my mom.

Top of the Space Needle.

Pretty view.

Back on the monorail

The next day Charlie and Mark got to go sailing with my aunt and her husband. Always a highlight.

This is a picture of Mark, Rick and Opa fixing the "hamburger" that my mom crunched. She borrowed our car to go down to her condo and forgot about the cargo carrier (it got nick named the hamburger because it is big and fat and well looks like a big ol hamburger is sitting on your car. :)) She pulled into her parking garage and smashed it. She called Opa who came and got it and went to work on it. Just the type of thing he loves to do. A couple hours later it was fixed and probably better than it was before.

Kenya with my mom, oma, and Aunt Marialyn. We headed to the Hess's this night and stayed with them for a couple days before heading home. I unfortunately didn't take any pictures but we had a great time like always!

Wednesday, September 1, 2010

Welcome Scarlett

My sister Cami had her baby on Monday, her actual due date, and she did it NATURAL. I got to be there and she did amazing. It was very intense and emotional to watch so I can't imagine what it would be like to be the one doing it!

Welcome Scarlett Camille Lane
7lbs 4 oz
20 inches
August 30, 3:23 pm

She looks a lot like her oldest sister Sailor, same "crazy" hair as Kenya says. :)

Good job Cam, she's a keeper!

The World Through Kids Eyes

August 2013

Leila has officially stopped saying "I wanna hold you" :( She would always say that to us and I have never corrected her but I guess she figured it out for herself because tonight she said "hold me". She's growing up too fast!

November 2011
I told Kenya tonight that I was glad Heavenly Father sent her to me. She said "Why did Heavenly Father send me to you?" I said "well we were all a family before we came to earth, in heaven." She said "Mom, how did you get up in the sky?" "I don't know." I said. "Did Santa give you a ride?" Followed with giggles by both of us.

November 2010
Today I was telling Mark about how angry I got at Kenya for coloring on the table for like the millionth time. She heard me talking about it and said "You're not a nice mom, you're like the BEAST! I'm gonna put you in da gawbage and get a new mommy!" Then later Mark asked her when he was reading her a bedtime story "Kenya, am I the King?" She said "No, you're the debil (devil)." Charlie was drawing a picture of our family for school and drew me with my mouth open he said "Look mom, you're yelling." I don't think we're leaving the right kind of impression on our kids here.

July2010
Today Kenya came up to Mark and said "Daddy I have to tell you something." She then made him bend down so she could whisper in his ear "You're the best dad in the whole wide world." He thought maybe I told her to say that but she came up with it all on her own. She then did the same thing to me. I love hearing that little whisper in my ear.

June 2010
Kenya randomly makes comments on the baby in my belly, it usually goes something like this. "I like your big belly mom" then "I like your baby Leila." Then it's followed by "I have a big belly too." Tonight that was followed by "It's hooge."

March 2010
When Kenya is demanding something I will tell her she needs to ask nicely. She then yells at me "NICELY!" Not quite what I was meaning.
If you say something like "How are you doing?" She'll say "Kenya" instead of good, or bad, or sad, or happy. Kinda cute.
She's really starting to put her sentences together and express herself a lot better. It's fun to have conversations with her.

March 2010
At dinner we were discussing how babies just drink when they're newborns and don't eat food. We asked Charlie if he knew what they drank and he said "yes, milk from your..." he paused for a few seconds and we were anticipating what was going to come out, then he said "from your belly!" What innocence.
February 2010-
Kenya has been saying some cute things lately most mornings she comes into our bed and snuggles in right in the middle of us. This morning she snuggled up next to Mark, put her hand on his cheek and said "daddy you're my sweetie girl." We had to laugh. Last night we were in the car, Mark was on the phone and Charlie was being really loud so he turned around and grabbed his leg to get him to be quiet. Charlie started crying and Kenya got really mad "don't hurt my sista! You otay Charlay?" We explained it was her brother and she said it all over again, this time with brother. She's been calling a lot of people her sister lately, she's a bit confused.
I made chocolate football cake bites for the superbowl and whenever she finishes her food she says "I want a hapball!" The first couple times I didn't know what she was saying until she ran over to them and pointed, now we know that hapball is football.

July 2009-
Charlie was asking me if his dreams would come true (I thought he was referring to bad dreams because he's been so scared of having bad dreams lately thanks to watching "Thriller") I told him they wouldn't come true and he kept asking me about it. Finally he said "Well daddy's dream came true when you were his wife!" Awww, thanks bud!

June 2009-
Yesterday Charlie randomly said to me "You know mom Jesus is sad when you're mean to me." I guess what goes around comes around. He also told me as we were reading "Little Red Cap" (the real Little Red Riding Hood story) "She shouldn't have lied to her mom" he said. I said "No she should've minded her mom and not gone off the path." He said "well sometimes I lie to you." At least he's honest, well sometimes. :)
May 2009-
Kenya loves the park. Every time we drive by one she freaks out "side, side! Mama side mease, meeease!" (slide please) she says "mease" all the time, it kills me! So cute. She also loves to say "go way!" Every time she's mad at someone or we're trying to get her to do something she doesn't want to its "go way!"

February 2009-Charlie said a prayer the other day that went like this "Grateful we could go to Disneyland, grateful for Halloween, grateful for Christmas, in the name..." That was it! Kind of funny.

December 2008-Last night when Mark was putting Charlie to bed Charlie said "Dad, I think Jaxon isn't choosing the right." Mark said "Yeah, how come? " Charlie said "Because he likes BYU and that's not choosing the right." Mark was pretty proud.

December 2008-

Charlie had a Christmas pajama party at preschool. He got a gift from his teachers. He opened it up and it was a blanket they had made for him, "Wow, a blanket!" I said. Charlie said "It's beautiful!" Then a bit later he was doing a puzzle while I was on the computer and out of nowhere he just says "Merry Christmas mom." He can be so sweet.

November 2008- With Christmas right around the corner and his birthday a couple weeks ago Charlie wants everything he sees on TV. He'll be upstairs watching TV and you'll just hear him say "How 'bout that!" And if it's a girl toy it's "How 'bout that for Kenya!" I don't know why it's "how 'bout that" but it puts a smile on my face every time he says it. It's too cute.

I love how honest Charlie is. The other day he went to the bathroom and when he came out I said "wash your hands" as he came out he got distracted for a minute and then said "Oh yeah, I got poop on my finger." And went to the bathroom. The same day he told me that while he was playing outside with his friend Brady he peed in our dirt, just randomly told me later that afternoon with a guilty look on his face. I was surprised because he hates peeing outside!

I took Charlie to Target to pick out a Halloween costume. I thought he would pick one out immediately and probably choose spider man or batman, well he wasn't really jumping on anything he saw, until he saw a transformer costume he said "I want to be a transformer!" I said "Ok do you want to be Bumble Bee?" "No, I want to be Octopus Prime!" I think it's so cute to hear him say it I haven't told him it's Optimus Prime.

One morning while we were getting ready for church Charlie in his best little sick voice says to me "Mom, (cough cough) I can't go to church, I'm sick (cough cough) see I have a cough.! Isn't he a little young to be doing that?

Last night I was kneeling down by Charlie as he said his prayers. This is what he said- "...Grateful I could go to preschool, grateful for daddy and Kenya," then he reached out and stroked my hair, "and grateful for mommy's hair." He was so happy yesterday when I came home from work and my hair was done and not in a pony tail anymore.

Charlie's Aunt Kristen asked him one day "Charlie what did you do today?" He said " I played with Samara." She said "Oh, is that your friend?" "No!" He said, " she's my husband!"

Mark sold his car and Charlie was with us as we dropped it off to the new owner. Charlie said "Dad, where is your car going?" Mark said " I sold it, it's going bye bye." Charlie said "All our of our stuff going bye bye?" I hope we're not traumatizing him! :)

Charlie has been learning about the Holy Ghost and he seems a bit confused at the concept. Today out of the blue he asked me "Mom, where is the Holy Ghost?" I tried to explain to him that he's a spirit and he can bring good feelings to you etc.. Then he said "Oh, can I touch his blanket?" (This is what a ghost is to him, somebody with a blanket over them.) So then I explained that he's not a real ghost he's a spirit and he doesn't have a body etc. Then he said "Yeah, but he almost has a body, and when I pull off it's blanket is the Holy Ghost a girl or a boy?" Let's just say he's still confused. :)

We went to Discovery Gateway today and as we were walking in there was a little person standing by the entrance. Charlie looks at me and says "Mom, that was a wittle mom." I thought that was pretty politically correct. :)

Today at church Charlie was playing with some cards on the bench during sacrament when I looked over at him he seemed to be pondering something and said to me "mom, am I going to get baptized?" I said "Yes, when you're 8 you can get baptized." "But I want to get baptized now!" (The lady sitting in front of us turns around and whispers "precious." :)) I told him again he could when he's eight. Then he said "Can daddy help me get baptized?" I guess he is learning something in primary and FHE!

Almost every morning I have a battle with Charlie on what he's going to wear. At least the mornings when I care what he wears and want him to look decent. Last night he got to pick out a movie to rent, he chose a Buzz Lightyear one (this is his latest obsession.) This morning I brought out some clothes and he saw them and said "No, not that shirt! That shirt won't make me Buzz Lightyear!" I said "Oh, what shirt will?" "Come here, I'll show you." And he took me into his room and insisted that he wear a white baseball T with green sleeves. This is the closest shirt he has that resembles Buzz Lightyear's costume. Pretty creative kid.

Charlie is in sunbeams now but we've been watching Cami's kids this weekend at her house so he went to nursery today with his cousin Luke. When we got home I asked him what he learned in nursery. He said "nothing." I said "didn't you have a lesson, you must have learned something." Very adamantly he responded "No we don't learn anything in nursery, we just have snacks!" No wonder why he loves it! :)

Cami has a piano in her house and yesterday towards the end of Charlie's nap Luke started softly touching the keys. Charlie woke up and came out of the bedroom with his hands out to the side palms facing up and said in a sweet surprised voice "I wake up and heard the piano singing." Mark and I thought it was too funny.

Those of you who have been around us probably know that Charlie hates my hair in a pony tail. I have no idea where this came from but for about a year he has been like this. It's getting better but at first he would throw a huge fit and say "Don't cutta your hair!" Then I explained to him it was a pony tail so it became "Take out your ponytail!" And he would grab my hair and try and get the elastic out. He's made progress over the past year, it went from forbidding it to throwing a fit but on occasion after I explained to him I was going to the gym or didn't have time to do my hair a few times a day I could make it through the day. Now He doesn't immediately respond to it when he sees it but at some point through out the day he'll comment on it. The other day he was going down for his nap and he said "Mom when I wake up will you take your ponytail out?" I can't believe a three year old boy could care so much about a ponytail! So much for short hair, he probably wouldn't speak to me for weeks! :)

After we sold our house we moved into my dad's. Charlie loves being around his grandpa and the other day he was sitting on the potty and I said "Charlie, do you need help?" and he said "no, I want grandpa to wipe me!" I said "no, grandpa doesn't wipe you, just mommy." So a couple days later he says to grandpa "Grandpa, are you a boy or a girl?" Grandpa said "I'm a boy." Charlie said "if you're a boy then you can wipe me!" Don't know how he decided that one but I guess he's got it all figured out!

Kenya has been sick the past day and tonight at dinner Charlie said "why isn't Kenya eating?" I said "Because she's sick." He said "Oh, does she have a snotty nose?" I said "No, she has a tummy ache." "Oh, did she eat an egg?" "No, I said ache, not egg, it means her tummy hurts." In classic Charlie response to everything "Oh." :)