The Holbrook Family

Thursday, May 26, 2011

A Prince and his Princess

To elaborate further on my last post, here is Kenya dancing with her friend Kiley. They wanted me to turn some Cinderella music on in Charlie's room, Kenya was the prince and Kiley was the princess. I walked out of the room but couldn't help peeking through the door to watch and snap some pics.

This was right after the kiss!

Sunday, May 22, 2011

Little Girls

I've said before how much easier it is for me to have little girls playing at my house than boys. If Kenya has a couple girls over, no big deal. If Charlie has a couple friends over I'm constantly telling them to keep it down or settle down or sending them outside. Here's Kenya with a couple of her best play mates. They're so cute and girlie, Kenya and Kiley had dance but cute Brooklyn just happened to be wearing a tutu too. :)

Kenya loves taking people for rides in the wagon.

Sunday, May 8, 2011

10 months

I thought she hadn't changed much but she looks so big in this picture. At 10 months Leila is

Finally crawling, sort of. She'll crawl a couple steps, then she sprawls out on her tummy, pushes up to her bum, and will do it all over again. She doesn't go far and I love it.
She still doesn't roll and does not want to! I have been "practicing" with her and she fights me on it. So if she's on her back she is stuck there.
Doesn't like to be held upside down, it scares her pretty bad.
Loves babbling and loves it even more if you babble back to her.
Decided she does not like to sleep in my arms at church.
Bounces up and down every time music comes on.
Loves playing with Charlie and Kenya, they get her to laugh really well.
Drinks 4 6oz bottles a day and eats 3 meals a day. Still taking 2 2 hours naps and sleeping about 12 hours at night.
Weighs 18 lbs.

Here she is dancing to Mark's little beat boxin'....

Mothers Day

I love being a mom, and I am still amazed that I am a mom to three beautiful kids. They teach and challenge me every day and I thank Heavenly Father for sending them my way.

This morning Kenya came into our room and Mark said

"Kenya, it's Mother's Day"

K- " I know, she had a sponge."

Me-"A sponge?"

K- "Yeah! She already had a bite of her sponge!"

Me- "Oh, you mean my fudge?"

K-"Yeah, where is it? We were going to share it?"

(She made fudge for me at preschool and couldn't wait to give it to me, really because she wanted to eat it too. We each had a bite and a couple days later it got thrown out.)

Me-"I'm sorry sweetie, I already ate it all, it was so good." (see the lip start to curl down and the tears about to pop out of her eyes.)

K- "You were spose to share it wif me!" (Full on wailing now.)

I totally thought she would forget about it, I should've known better. I felt terrible. Luckily Mark distracted her quickly with a show and some cereal and she got over it pretty quick. Speaking of Mark, he let me sleep in (as much as you can with 9:00 church), served me breakfast in bed, and got me a massage and facial. Can't wait for that! After church we went to Little America with Mark's family and enjoyed a nice lunch. When we got home the whole family took a two hour nap, ahhh, so nice.

When I woke up I did some blogging, felt guilty that I wasn't playing with Kenya who asked me a couple times to play with her, I quietly ignored it and she quietly played by herself upstairs. I could've quietly continued to ignore it but decided I didn't want to do that so I went upstairs and had a tea party with her, we took a trip to Hawaii, she put me to sleep in her bed (my favorite kind of play) then Charlie and Kenya played airplane on my legs.

Dinner was cold cereal and a banana, followed with scriptures and family prayer, thanks to Mark who always remembers to do that, and kids going to bed, again thanks to Mark. A good day.

It is also my mom's 60th birthday today, she is in Arizona so we will get to celebrate with her when she comes up this week. Love you mom, you are one beautiful 60 year old!

60!

My dear old dad turned 60 on cinco de Mayo. We put a little party together for him on Saturday to celebrate the milestone.

Still looking good at 60, he is in the dating world after all.
I made my dad's favorite, grandma Poulson's famous banana cream pie (famous in our family at least.)

My dad is famous for his powerful candle blowing out skills.

My dad has 10 siblings. Here are 4 of them, Connie (Leo), dad, Doug, Dessa, (Shirley) Jack.

His posterity (minus Jordan)

Jared put together a fun slideshow of pictures throughout my dad's life then we all said a few kind words, shed some tears, and shared fun memories.

My dad's life probably hasn't turned out the way you'd hope your life might, but he has been a wonderful example in my life. I have great family memories of boating, camping, working, fhe, scripture study, and much more. Sometimes I think to myself about what I missed out on as a kid with divorced parents, and I see what my kids get to enjoy and take for granted with married parents. Last night though I was reminded that I still had a great childhood, and was able to do a lot, learned a lot, and grew a lot. I am so blessed with a close family, siblings that I like, who I get along with and enjoy being with, that's what I truly hope my kids will have too. My dad has always supported me, loved me, and been there for me, and I couldn't be more grateful for that. Love you dad.

What Can I Sell?

Charlie has decided that he is going to earn enough money to buy himself an itouch. As a result he's been asking me what he can sell. I told him he could sell 5 of our bottled waters so he got all set up to sell and before long the neighbor kids wanted in on it too. A couple of the older boys didn't think water was a good idea. Charlie let them know that punch wasn't good for your body and water was. That's my boy. They made their own punch though and brought it over, of course that sold better than Charlie's water. He also got a bunch of his Easter candy and sold that too. Kenya decided she wanted to sell stuff too so she pulled out her own "table" and got some fruit leathers to sell. Isabelle next door wanted her stand too so she was selling capri suns on her own table. It was quite the store on our street. I think Charlie made about $1.50, but the fun was priceless. :)

Look at that pose!

He looks Broadway bound here. "I'm in the money!"

Isabelle with her little stand.

Kenya stared soccer. I think she has potential.

I ran in the Race For The Cure this weekend. So many people! I was touched seeing everyone's signs of who they were running for.

Our team.

You can't really tell but there are people all the way down that street and I was not at the end.

Leila tagged along in stroller and was as content as can be.

What a beautiful weekend! Mark was in the yard pretty much all day. I love 70 degrees.

Women's Conference

I got to attend another wonderful Women's Conference. I look forward to this every year and am so glad I get to go with such wonderful women. It's always so much fun and enlightening. I came home with a renewed sense of worth and commitment to improving myself and my family.

While we were there Sara from Our Best Bites was signing her cook book so we hopped over and got ourselves a signed copy.

Not gonna lie, we got a little sleepy during some talks.

Service project, putting together newborn caps.

Thanks girls for a great time, already looking forward to next year.

The World Through Kids Eyes

August 2013

Leila has officially stopped saying "I wanna hold you" :( She would always say that to us and I have never corrected her but I guess she figured it out for herself because tonight she said "hold me". She's growing up too fast!

November 2011
I told Kenya tonight that I was glad Heavenly Father sent her to me. She said "Why did Heavenly Father send me to you?" I said "well we were all a family before we came to earth, in heaven." She said "Mom, how did you get up in the sky?" "I don't know." I said. "Did Santa give you a ride?" Followed with giggles by both of us.

November 2010
Today I was telling Mark about how angry I got at Kenya for coloring on the table for like the millionth time. She heard me talking about it and said "You're not a nice mom, you're like the BEAST! I'm gonna put you in da gawbage and get a new mommy!" Then later Mark asked her when he was reading her a bedtime story "Kenya, am I the King?" She said "No, you're the debil (devil)." Charlie was drawing a picture of our family for school and drew me with my mouth open he said "Look mom, you're yelling." I don't think we're leaving the right kind of impression on our kids here.

July2010
Today Kenya came up to Mark and said "Daddy I have to tell you something." She then made him bend down so she could whisper in his ear "You're the best dad in the whole wide world." He thought maybe I told her to say that but she came up with it all on her own. She then did the same thing to me. I love hearing that little whisper in my ear.

June 2010
Kenya randomly makes comments on the baby in my belly, it usually goes something like this. "I like your big belly mom" then "I like your baby Leila." Then it's followed by "I have a big belly too." Tonight that was followed by "It's hooge."

March 2010
When Kenya is demanding something I will tell her she needs to ask nicely. She then yells at me "NICELY!" Not quite what I was meaning.
If you say something like "How are you doing?" She'll say "Kenya" instead of good, or bad, or sad, or happy. Kinda cute.
She's really starting to put her sentences together and express herself a lot better. It's fun to have conversations with her.

March 2010
At dinner we were discussing how babies just drink when they're newborns and don't eat food. We asked Charlie if he knew what they drank and he said "yes, milk from your..." he paused for a few seconds and we were anticipating what was going to come out, then he said "from your belly!" What innocence.
February 2010-
Kenya has been saying some cute things lately most mornings she comes into our bed and snuggles in right in the middle of us. This morning she snuggled up next to Mark, put her hand on his cheek and said "daddy you're my sweetie girl." We had to laugh. Last night we were in the car, Mark was on the phone and Charlie was being really loud so he turned around and grabbed his leg to get him to be quiet. Charlie started crying and Kenya got really mad "don't hurt my sista! You otay Charlay?" We explained it was her brother and she said it all over again, this time with brother. She's been calling a lot of people her sister lately, she's a bit confused.
I made chocolate football cake bites for the superbowl and whenever she finishes her food she says "I want a hapball!" The first couple times I didn't know what she was saying until she ran over to them and pointed, now we know that hapball is football.

July 2009-
Charlie was asking me if his dreams would come true (I thought he was referring to bad dreams because he's been so scared of having bad dreams lately thanks to watching "Thriller") I told him they wouldn't come true and he kept asking me about it. Finally he said "Well daddy's dream came true when you were his wife!" Awww, thanks bud!

June 2009-
Yesterday Charlie randomly said to me "You know mom Jesus is sad when you're mean to me." I guess what goes around comes around. He also told me as we were reading "Little Red Cap" (the real Little Red Riding Hood story) "She shouldn't have lied to her mom" he said. I said "No she should've minded her mom and not gone off the path." He said "well sometimes I lie to you." At least he's honest, well sometimes. :)
May 2009-
Kenya loves the park. Every time we drive by one she freaks out "side, side! Mama side mease, meeease!" (slide please) she says "mease" all the time, it kills me! So cute. She also loves to say "go way!" Every time she's mad at someone or we're trying to get her to do something she doesn't want to its "go way!"

February 2009-Charlie said a prayer the other day that went like this "Grateful we could go to Disneyland, grateful for Halloween, grateful for Christmas, in the name..." That was it! Kind of funny.

December 2008-Last night when Mark was putting Charlie to bed Charlie said "Dad, I think Jaxon isn't choosing the right." Mark said "Yeah, how come? " Charlie said "Because he likes BYU and that's not choosing the right." Mark was pretty proud.

December 2008-

Charlie had a Christmas pajama party at preschool. He got a gift from his teachers. He opened it up and it was a blanket they had made for him, "Wow, a blanket!" I said. Charlie said "It's beautiful!" Then a bit later he was doing a puzzle while I was on the computer and out of nowhere he just says "Merry Christmas mom." He can be so sweet.

November 2008- With Christmas right around the corner and his birthday a couple weeks ago Charlie wants everything he sees on TV. He'll be upstairs watching TV and you'll just hear him say "How 'bout that!" And if it's a girl toy it's "How 'bout that for Kenya!" I don't know why it's "how 'bout that" but it puts a smile on my face every time he says it. It's too cute.

I love how honest Charlie is. The other day he went to the bathroom and when he came out I said "wash your hands" as he came out he got distracted for a minute and then said "Oh yeah, I got poop on my finger." And went to the bathroom. The same day he told me that while he was playing outside with his friend Brady he peed in our dirt, just randomly told me later that afternoon with a guilty look on his face. I was surprised because he hates peeing outside!

I took Charlie to Target to pick out a Halloween costume. I thought he would pick one out immediately and probably choose spider man or batman, well he wasn't really jumping on anything he saw, until he saw a transformer costume he said "I want to be a transformer!" I said "Ok do you want to be Bumble Bee?" "No, I want to be Octopus Prime!" I think it's so cute to hear him say it I haven't told him it's Optimus Prime.

One morning while we were getting ready for church Charlie in his best little sick voice says to me "Mom, (cough cough) I can't go to church, I'm sick (cough cough) see I have a cough.! Isn't he a little young to be doing that?

Last night I was kneeling down by Charlie as he said his prayers. This is what he said- "...Grateful I could go to preschool, grateful for daddy and Kenya," then he reached out and stroked my hair, "and grateful for mommy's hair." He was so happy yesterday when I came home from work and my hair was done and not in a pony tail anymore.

Charlie's Aunt Kristen asked him one day "Charlie what did you do today?" He said " I played with Samara." She said "Oh, is that your friend?" "No!" He said, " she's my husband!"

Mark sold his car and Charlie was with us as we dropped it off to the new owner. Charlie said "Dad, where is your car going?" Mark said " I sold it, it's going bye bye." Charlie said "All our of our stuff going bye bye?" I hope we're not traumatizing him! :)

Charlie has been learning about the Holy Ghost and he seems a bit confused at the concept. Today out of the blue he asked me "Mom, where is the Holy Ghost?" I tried to explain to him that he's a spirit and he can bring good feelings to you etc.. Then he said "Oh, can I touch his blanket?" (This is what a ghost is to him, somebody with a blanket over them.) So then I explained that he's not a real ghost he's a spirit and he doesn't have a body etc. Then he said "Yeah, but he almost has a body, and when I pull off it's blanket is the Holy Ghost a girl or a boy?" Let's just say he's still confused. :)

We went to Discovery Gateway today and as we were walking in there was a little person standing by the entrance. Charlie looks at me and says "Mom, that was a wittle mom." I thought that was pretty politically correct. :)

Today at church Charlie was playing with some cards on the bench during sacrament when I looked over at him he seemed to be pondering something and said to me "mom, am I going to get baptized?" I said "Yes, when you're 8 you can get baptized." "But I want to get baptized now!" (The lady sitting in front of us turns around and whispers "precious." :)) I told him again he could when he's eight. Then he said "Can daddy help me get baptized?" I guess he is learning something in primary and FHE!

Almost every morning I have a battle with Charlie on what he's going to wear. At least the mornings when I care what he wears and want him to look decent. Last night he got to pick out a movie to rent, he chose a Buzz Lightyear one (this is his latest obsession.) This morning I brought out some clothes and he saw them and said "No, not that shirt! That shirt won't make me Buzz Lightyear!" I said "Oh, what shirt will?" "Come here, I'll show you." And he took me into his room and insisted that he wear a white baseball T with green sleeves. This is the closest shirt he has that resembles Buzz Lightyear's costume. Pretty creative kid.

Charlie is in sunbeams now but we've been watching Cami's kids this weekend at her house so he went to nursery today with his cousin Luke. When we got home I asked him what he learned in nursery. He said "nothing." I said "didn't you have a lesson, you must have learned something." Very adamantly he responded "No we don't learn anything in nursery, we just have snacks!" No wonder why he loves it! :)

Cami has a piano in her house and yesterday towards the end of Charlie's nap Luke started softly touching the keys. Charlie woke up and came out of the bedroom with his hands out to the side palms facing up and said in a sweet surprised voice "I wake up and heard the piano singing." Mark and I thought it was too funny.

Those of you who have been around us probably know that Charlie hates my hair in a pony tail. I have no idea where this came from but for about a year he has been like this. It's getting better but at first he would throw a huge fit and say "Don't cutta your hair!" Then I explained to him it was a pony tail so it became "Take out your ponytail!" And he would grab my hair and try and get the elastic out. He's made progress over the past year, it went from forbidding it to throwing a fit but on occasion after I explained to him I was going to the gym or didn't have time to do my hair a few times a day I could make it through the day. Now He doesn't immediately respond to it when he sees it but at some point through out the day he'll comment on it. The other day he was going down for his nap and he said "Mom when I wake up will you take your ponytail out?" I can't believe a three year old boy could care so much about a ponytail! So much for short hair, he probably wouldn't speak to me for weeks! :)

After we sold our house we moved into my dad's. Charlie loves being around his grandpa and the other day he was sitting on the potty and I said "Charlie, do you need help?" and he said "no, I want grandpa to wipe me!" I said "no, grandpa doesn't wipe you, just mommy." So a couple days later he says to grandpa "Grandpa, are you a boy or a girl?" Grandpa said "I'm a boy." Charlie said "if you're a boy then you can wipe me!" Don't know how he decided that one but I guess he's got it all figured out!

Kenya has been sick the past day and tonight at dinner Charlie said "why isn't Kenya eating?" I said "Because she's sick." He said "Oh, does she have a snotty nose?" I said "No, she has a tummy ache." "Oh, did she eat an egg?" "No, I said ache, not egg, it means her tummy hurts." In classic Charlie response to everything "Oh." :)